Life Coaching for Men, in Dominatrix Packaging
Behind every good man is a better woman.
1:1 coaching for men who want a life they actually enjoy being inside of.
Plot Twist: I’m not actually a findom.
The FI stands for Financial Independence. Yours and mine.
I'm a life coach in dominatrix packaging. I play a findom on the internet because that's where you found me, and I would rather meet you where you already are than wait around for you to wander into the self-help section.
The strictness is real. The kink is optional. You do not have to be submissive, into findom, or into anything at all to be here.
Clear instructions. Real accountability. Zero bullshit.
It's not complicated. It is hard. I'm here for both.
This is for you if...
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This is for you if... ✦
You want to finally finish the thing you've only had ideas about.
You're done being the only one holding yourself accountable.
Part of you wants to be told what to do, and you're tired of being ashamed of that instead of using it.
You want someone to notice when you show up, not just when you win.
You want structure that survives your bad weeks, not just your good ones.
You want to eventually not need this at all, and you want a coach who's building you toward that.
None of this means something is wrong with you. It means nobody ever built you a structure that fit.
Big Ideas, Real Impact
Premium is more of a game.
Customized tasks that get harder as you get better. Prizes, even.
How to Be a Good Boy
The VIP Experience
Most people go their whole adult lives without anyone paying close attention to them. Not their performance, not their output. Them.
VIP is the opposite of that. This is the deepest work I do.
*Start with a 7-day free trial once we've talked.
“My negative self talk has met its match.”
A welcome gift, mailed to you.
Something real shows up at your door. You are not a subscription. You're a person I decided to invest in.
Daily tasks recorded just for you.
Not a course library. Not a template. Video and audio made for your actual life, updated as you move, adjusted when you stall.
A 1:1 call every week.
Up to an hour every week. Enough contact that I know what's going on with you, and enough that you can't quietly disappear for a month.
Someone who remembers the specifics.
Your project. Your deadline. The conversation you've been avoiding. The thing you said you'd do last week.
Strict Sesh, Tuesday and Thursday.
Live group work sessions. Bring your custom tasks and knock them out with the room.
Executive function, outsourced.
You don't have to figure out what to do next. That's my job now. Your job is to do the thing.
Our Story
Every decision we make is shaped by a clear sense of purpose. Our journey has been anything but ordinary. Through every step, we've focused on staying true to our values and making space for thoughtful, lasting work.
What began as a passion project has evolved into something more. We’re proud of where we’ve been and even more excited for what’s ahead.
The Seven Centers System®
Seven centers. Seven days of the week. One center per day.
You are never working on your whole life at once. You're working on one thing today, and you'll come back to it next week, and the week after that, until it stops being effort and starts being who you are.
You show up, you practice, you grow.
I'm certified in the Seven Centers System®. I also use it daily to calibrate my life and I love teaching it to others. Most people move through the full system in three to six months. It's designed to keep working long after you stop paying me.
I believe you’re capable of more than you’ve ever let yourself try.
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We're a team of passionate thinkers and doers, dedicated to building with purpose and clarity. Collaboration and curiosity drive everything we do.
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We believe in keeping things simple, smart, and human. Every project starts with listening and ends with something we're proud to share.
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From startups to seasoned brands, we partner with people who care about doing things right—and doing them well.
Meet
Firenze
Step into a world where accountability meets transformation. Here, we strip away shame and replace it with discipline, purpose, and sustainable growth. Whether you're here to build financial independence, master yourself, or find community—I'll help you become the version of you who lives the life you actually want.
This isn't your typical life coaching—I blend nervous system regulation with strict accountability, Domme aesthetics with genuine care. The heart of a teacher, the mind of an entrepreneur, the discipline of a coach.
Whether you found me through my YouTube channel, Instagram, or curious exploration—you're in the right place. You are welcome. You are capable. And you're more than ready to build a life full of discipline, agency, and freedom.
Client Testimonials
“I’ve been trying to work through a very complicated matter. For a long time now I’d make some progress and then put it all aside, though often waking up in the night, trying to work through it even though I'd rather be sleeping. The topic is quite challenging so that I could only stay with it for a while; I’d make some progress and then set it aside for weeks or more.
I sensed that one of Firenze Banks’ Strict Sessions might help. It not only helped, but it got me through to a place that I’ve been trying to get to for almost two years.
It’s my nature to discount my own successes, but in this instance I’m very pleased with the progress I’ve made today. I feel as though a giant weight has been lifted.
And I’m grateful to Firenze for her energy and the space she creates for all of us to learn, grow, and explore.”
—Current VIP member“In today’s Strict Sesh, I complete my homework assignment fully and 5 days early! Usually I need urgency to push me to finish. So it felt great to do it without stress.”
—Current Premium member“I've dabbled in poetry since grade school. Rarely have I been inspired unless deeply depressed or enchanted by someone of the female persuasion. I've never been consistent about it until this community. The structure of the Productivity Dungeon and now, Strict Sesh, along with Firenze's unyielding positivity about what is possible, have been instrumental in goal setting and doing the work to achieve said goal(s). She challenges the narrative you've created for yourself that is holding you back from the thing or things you may want to accomplish. Despite my internal monologue's best efforts to resist, I found myself at the dentist office yesterday, telling a dental assistant not to tell themselves they can't do something because that is a limiting belief...Firenze's words pouring out of my mouth as convincingly as if she said them herself! I might be being brainwashed but I'm here for it!”
—Current Premium member“Once again, thank you, Miss Firenze, for such a productive task. I appreciate the way you genuinely care about the growth of people in the community. I always admire and respect you.”
—Current Premium member
Let’s be direct about what this isn’t:
This isn’t sex work.
No sexual content, no sexual services, no exceptions.
This is not findom.
Nobody is draining your account and calling it a service.
This is not built to make you dependent on me.
If you still need me in two years, I didn’t do my job.
I’m here to teach you to master yourself.
The goal is that you don’t need me.
Not ready for VIP?
Start where you can. Every tier teaches the full Seven Centers System®, and you can move up whenever you're ready.
Standard, $111/month
Full self-study access to the Seven Centers course library. Strict Sesh Tuesday and Thursday. Full community access.
Premium, $444/month
Everything in Standard, plus the Seven Centers taught through simple daily tasks, goals assigned and monitored in Goalify, and one 1-hour 1:1 call per month.
Same application, same Discovery Call, same 7-day free trial. Every level.
How this works:
1. Apply
Fill out the application. It takes a few minutes and it tells me who I'm talking to.
2. Book a Discovery Call
We talk. I find out what you actually want and whether I'm the right person to help you get it. If I'm not, I'll tell you.
3. Start your free week on Skool
You're in. Seven days free at whatever tier we chose together, so you can feel how it works before you pay for anything.
I approve every person who joins, which is why the call comes first. I don't take everyone, and I'd rather turn you away than take your money and waste your time.